Parent Them Successful

#118: Why Bribes and Ultimatums Do Not Work When Raising Kids

December 12, 2023 Jessika Shields & Andee Martineau Episode 118
Parent Them Successful
#118: Why Bribes and Ultimatums Do Not Work When Raising Kids
Show Notes

In this episode, we talk about a truly pervasive issue in the parenting world. Is it me or does it seem like kids just don’t do well taking direction these days. You give a directive and they say “no, I don’t want to” or maybe they just outright ignore you as if they didn’t hear a thing. As a parent, what do you do? Maybe you yell. Maybe you offer a sweet deal or bribe. Maybe you give them an ultimatum which kicks their defiant behaviors into high gear. Of course, the cycle continues. Well, there has to be a better way to handle these difficult situations at every age and stage of childhood development. That’s why we have a very special guest today to help us with this very issue. She has helped over 10,000 parents, so you’re not alone. 



About This Episode's Special Guest:

FREE COURSE: https://cmp.works/successful

Book on Amazon: https://cmp.works/thebooklink


Resources Mentioned:

Book: Mindset by Carol Dweck

https://www.amazon.com/Mindset-Carol-S-Dweck-audiobook/dp/B07N48NM33/ref=sr_1_1?crid=27YHT1JSD82PB&keywords=mindset+carol&qid=1693068550&s=books&sprefix=mindset+carol%2Cstripbooks%2C136&sr=1-1


Drive by Daniel Pink

https://www.amazon.com/Drive-Surprising-Truth-About-Motivates/dp/1594484805/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32FIP8CF5YNK3&keywords=drive+by+daniel+pink&qid=1693068830&s=books&sprefix=drive%2Cstripbooks%2C255&sr=1-1



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